在美國街頭隨機訪問🎤
遇到這對超幽默又恩愛的夫妻,分享他們的精彩故事!
他們居然說婚姻最難忘的事:竟然是被綁架?!,到底發生什麼事情呢?讓我們一起看下去…
我問了他們這些問題💬:
1️⃣ 第一次相遇的故事是什麼? 💕
2️⃣ 是什麼讓太太決定跟丈夫在一起? 💍
3️⃣ 丈夫為太太做過最浪漫的事是什麼? 🌹
4️⃣ 婚姻中最好和最糟的時刻是什麼?🎢
5️⃣ 如何克服婚姻中的不誠實? 💔
6️⃣ 太太做過什麼事讓丈夫永生難忘?🌟
7️⃣ 你們收過最好的建議是什麼? ✨
跟著Claire一起訪問這對結婚40年的夫妻
Claire: Are you guys a couple?
請問你們是情侶嗎?
丈夫:Yes, we are.
是的,我們是。
Claire: Do you mind sharing the story of how you first met?
可以分享你們相遇的故事嗎?
丈夫:We’ve been married for 40 years. We met in college. That’s the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen.
我們已經結婚40年了,我們是在大學認識的。那是我見過最美麗的女人。
Claire: What made you decide to be together with him eventually?
是什麼讓你最終決定要跟他在一起?
太太:I was just in love. And I couldn’t imagine my life without him.
我就是愛上他了,而且我無法想像我的生命中沒有他。
Claire: Wow! What’s the most romantic thing you’ve ever done for her?
哇!那你為她做過最浪漫的事是什麼?
太太:Kidnapped me on our 25th anniversary and took me to the hotel we stayed that on our wedding night.
他在我們25週年結婚紀念日時,綁架我去到之前我們新婚之夜時,一起住過的飯店。
Claire: That’s so sweet of you! What’s the best and worst moments in the marriage?
你真的很會耶!最好的和最糟的婚姻時刻是什麼?
丈夫:We have two beautiful children. Those were highlights. Worst, I think we’ll keep it to ourselves.
我們有兩個可愛的孩子,那些是亮點。最糟的我想我們就收著不說吧。
太太:Dishonesty.
不誠實吧。
Claire: How do you overcome that?
你們是怎麼克服的?
丈夫:Therapy.
婚姻諮商。
Claire: What something that she did that you’ll never forget?
她做過什麼事讓你永生難忘?
丈夫:I was having a really hard time one night with my work, and I actually just kind of gave up. And she took care of me, and she cooked me an amazing steak au poivre dinner
有一次我在工作上遇到很大的困難,我其實就快放棄了。但是她照顧我,為我煮了一頓超棒的牛排大餐。
Claire: What’s one best piece of advice you’ve ever received?
你收到過最好的建議是什麼?
太太:Keep communication lines open.
保持良好的溝通。
丈夫:Things change quickly, sometimes for the worst, but more often for the better.
事情變化得很快,有時候變得更糟,但更多時候是變得更好。
關於愛情的二三事:
1️⃣ 怎麼知道另一半就是對的人
- I was just in love. And I couldn’t imagine my life without him.
(我就是愛上他了,而且我無法想像我的生命中沒有他。) - Love is not about finding someone to live with, it’s about finding someone you can’t live without. (愛不是找到一個可以一起生活的人,而是找到一個你不能沒有的人。)
- When you’re in love, it feels like life’s meaning is complete.
(當你愛上某人,人生的意義就完整了。)
2️⃣老夫妻分享婚姻中的挑戰和應對方式
- Honesty is the foundation of trust, and trust is the foundation of love.
(誠實是信任的基石,信任是愛的基石。) - Honesty means not just telling the truth, but also being vulnerable and transparent.
(誠實不僅僅是說實話,更是坦率和透明。) - Sometimes it’s okay to ask for help, and therapy can heal wounds.
(有時候尋求幫助是可以的,婚姻輔導能治癒創傷。)
3️⃣溝通的重要性
- Keep communication lines open. (保持良好的溝通方式)
- Communication is not just about speaking but also about listening with empathy.
(溝通不僅是表達,更是帶著同理心傾聽。) - Every conversation strengthens the bond and fosters mutual growth.
(每一次對話都能增強彼此的連結,促進共同成長。)
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